No Boyfriend Since Birth

Let me share what I've posted this afternoon in Teentalk's NBSB thread..

I posted on this thread a few years back, way back when I was still in high school and I'll be posting again now that I'm on my 3rd year in college.. still NBSB.

I've back read from page 48 till the present page this past hour and I have to say that I agree with some of you..

Ang dami kong na-realize this past years.. and I don't know kung agree ba kayo o hindi though we all have different points of view diba?

Before when I was still 14-16 yrs. old (now 18), I have such high standards when it comes to guys (I know you girls also do ) Sinasabi sa akin nung isang classmate ko nung high school na bat daw ba ang hirap namin i-please when it comes to guys, etc. Ang ta-taas daw ng standards namin. Alam niyo naman ang mga "semi"-teenagers (high school) ((: Uso kasi sa high school yung kailangan may bf or gf ka for the sake of being "in". Kailangan maki-uso ka and stuff or else, "loser" ka. I never thought of that before. Iniisip ko, what's the logic behind it, really? Just to impress people? Uso din kasi ang peer pressure during that time. That didn't get into me and I thank God for that

Sinasabi din nila na ang pihikan ko daw sa lalake, I don't deny the fact that I am. Pero na-realize ko na hindi lahat ng lalake eh makaka-fit sa standards mo lalo't na pag hindi kaabot-abot iyon. Everyone has flaws, and you have to deal with it. Gaya nga nang sabi na, pag nasa relationship ka na, you have to accept your partner's flaws.. Kaya, hinay-hinay sa pag set ng standards kasi pano kapag hindi naabot yun? I'm not saying na it's bad to set, I guess you have to set standards yung mga attainable ba.

Hindi naman ako NSSB, I've had 3 or 4? 2 of them were in grade school (loooool ikr?) Nakakaloka kasi nag letter pa yung guy sa akin that time tapos sinabi ko na marami pa namang ibang babae, bat ako pa yung pinili niya? Pag naalala ko yung time na yun, napag isip-isip ko, ang mature ko naman mag salita nung mga panahon na yan. I was only 10 years old that time! Ngayong college naman, walang nag a-attempt na mangligaw sa akin. Hindi naman ako sad, okay lang sa akin. I don't care though XD One time, tinanong nga ako nung friend ko kung ano daw gagawin ko kung may gustong mangligaw sa akin. Ang sagot ko, itu-turn down ko siya. I'm not being harsh or anything, it's just that ayaw ko kasing magpa-asa ng tao kung alam ko naman na wala ring patutunguhan yung panliligaw niya, diba? Mas mabuti pang sabihin mo na ng maaga kesa sa umaasa siya.

And I also don't get it when people ask you if you have a bf and then you answer them with "I don't have one" and they're all "weh, di nga?" nakakainis yung mga ganon. Ayaw maniwala eh sinasagot mo lang naman yung tanong nila. Ganon na ba ka-indemand ang magkaron ng bf ngayon? diba?

I want to graduate college being an NBSB still. Nothing's wrong with it naman diba? As long as you're happy and contended with what you have-- that's all that matters naman.

Kudos sa ating mga NBSB!

That's not even complete. I just shared some of what's on my mind about it, or else it'll be long! :))